A change of mind

Will be attending my cousin's wedding later in the evening. I overheard my mum saying to the aunties that after this, they will have to wait for many many years to attend the next wedding ceremony. It will be the 1980sss babies' turn. Then they tease one another saying its cousin 1, cousin 2 who will be the first to get married....

Btw, cousin 1's bout 25, cousin 2's 21.... (both guys). (i have 6 cousins about 20+++ age. but they only chose 2 to be the first to get married...)

I cant help but think that upon reaching the age of 20, you arrived at a crossroad. when you are young, you tell your parents (or worst, your parents found out) you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. They gave you HELL A BIG TIME with some FREAKING OUT, saying studying is the most important. No BGR relationships.

Then when you reach 20++, they changed their storage of vocab words to "WEDDING", "okto BOYFRIEND / okto GIRLFRIEND" and statements like " to procreate is human nature"

WAD A CHANGE........

and some even went to hong lim park to matchmake. if i am 34, and no man wants me, i wouldnt mind my parents going to matchmake for me. but i would definitely 翻脸 , 六亲不认 if they allow the reporters to interview them and show their faces to everyone on national tv. Then my friends, my neighbours, my....... will know i am a SUA. (Single, Ugly, Available)

i pity those children whose parents' faces were shown on tv. Those parents were smiling such BIG smile, you know!!!!!!

I still have 14years before i am 34.... (still got hope right?)